Giving women extraordinary experiences
In this clip, Shana responds to an AMP Inner Circle member’s question about giving women extraordinary experiences.
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Giving Women Extraordinary Experiences
Hi, this is Shana from the Authentic
Man Program, and I’m responding to a post about a question about giving
women extraordinary experiences and what to do if you don’t know how
to do that.
It was a question from a man who
said, ‘what if I really want to give women an extraordinary experience?’
because a lot of women are saying they want that, but I don’t know
that I know how to do that, and some women have a pretty high bar if
they’ve had these experiences before and are asking for them.
So…the first thing that comes
to mind is…talk to other men. And talk to women. And you can also
ask the woman or the woman that you’re dating what she wants or what
would be amazing for her. But it sounds like you’re wanting to come
into the relationship having some ideas and having, kind of, something
in your back pocket that you can do for her, so my suggestion is talk
to other men, ask what they have done with women, talk to other women,
ask what’s extraordinary for them. And then, like I said, really ask
the woman, because every woman is different, and we’re different every
day, in every moment.
So one thing that would be extraordinary
on one day, might seem not as extraordinary on another day, which is
a really great opportunity to practice not taking things personally!
So I hope that helps, and you know,
post on the list! Post on the men’s side of the forum and ask what
men do, and you can ask the question to women as well on our side. Thanks!
August 8th, 2009 at 8:48 am
So I ought to just do fun things I will enjoy and sometimes she will think it is extraordinary, eh? I guess this works because women take on their Man’s context so if I’m enjoying it she will to. OK, I’m off to ride my motorcycle.
December 3rd, 2009 at 7:37 am
I think that asking other women or men for advice on the woman you are trying to communicate with can only provide knowledge based on their experiences.
Getting to know the person you are trying to deal with in a way that she will share her desires, will give a better understanding of who she really is.
What she create in her mind is unique to her,we cant guess it.Getting her to be comfortable with you enough,will break down resistance,she will open up to you as a friend or potential partner.
If the connection is there you will able to feel each other in some special way,listen to her,and you will know what she desires.
George
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April 14th, 2010 at 10:02 pm
How about women lowering their expectations,and wake up and smell the coffee we are living in the 21st century,
Any women who expects a guy to give her always an extrodinary experience or expects her man to always inspire her is not living on this planet and any guy who tries to live up to these impossible standards is not being aunthentic.
A lot of guys set out to start pleasing their women too much that they forget their own mission in life.
So be true to your feelings guys as shakespeare quoted to thine own self be true day and night.
April 16th, 2010 at 10:38 pm
Yesterday I spontaneously played hide & seek with a female colleague at work. Can you believe that? It was amazing!