Can a One-Night Stand Be Connected?

June 30th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shana answers a question from an AMP Inner Circle member asking about about one-night stands and whether they can be connected or not.

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For information about coaching with Shana email: shana@authenticsf.com.

Moon Time

June 30th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page. Today, Alissa offers guys a rare, personal perspective on women’s menstral cycles and how they might affect the way you relate to women.

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For information about coaching with Alissa email: alissa@authenticsf.com.

3 Keys to Curiosity

June 30th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page. Today, Alissa offers men the Three Keys to Curiosity.

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For information about coaching with Alissa email: alissa@authenticsf.com.

Noticing A Woman’s Discomfort

June 23rd, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shelly answers a question from AMP Inner Circle member Tony and describes how his noticing of her discomfort could actually lead to more connection with her.

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For information about coaching with Shelly email: shelly@authenticsf.com.

A Woman’s State When Being Approached

June 23rd, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shelly answers a question from AMP Inner Circle member Dan asking how a woman’s receptivity to being approached is influenced by her state.

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Neediness vs. Confident Desire

June 23rd, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shelly answers the question from AMP Inner Circle member Charles asking about the difference between neediness vs. confident desire.

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Is she interested, or just being friendly?

June 22nd, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Alissa answers a question from Inner Circle Member Dan S about how to tell if a woman is interested or just being friendly.

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Confidence vs. Agression

June 19th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Alissa answers a question from Inner Circle Member Jtown about the difference between male aggression and true confidence.

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Hello, this is Alissa, I am answering one of the questions from the inner circle. This one is from Jaytown, and it’s called, ‘Do women like aggressive men?’ No! I do not like aggressive men, and Shelley answered this on the inner circle, but I just thought it’s so important to talk about the difference between confidence and aggression. And I was thinking about it and a confident man inspires me. And I feel able to relax in his presence. An aggressive man…I feel defensive in his presence, and so…I think it’s a great, great question, and I think there is a lot of confusion around that or there can be a lot of confusion around that as to, you know, this sort of , ‘man in his body, taking up space,’ is great as long as the heart is there as well, he’s totally cool with himself, confident, and he’s not coming from this aggressive place where it’s almost like that feigned strength. Aggression feeds defensiveness, for women, so if you’re getting a lot of defense from women, and they’re kind of, looking away, and getting out of there, I would really look for- ‘Where are you not being straight? Where are you being aggressive? Where are you being covert? Where are you trying to get something that you weren’t being straight about?’ These are all things that’ll make women crazy. Do whatever you can to be the confident, integrous, playful, curious man, and the entire holarchy. So…great work, thank you for that question, I really appreciate it.

A Woman Today…

June 15th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

In this clip, Shana offers guys a little glimpse into her experience today.

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Hi! It’s Shana. I am wanting to do a little bit of education, so this is not a response to anyone’s video or anyone’s question on the AMP forum, this is actually a little bit of a piece of my own sanity, and how I can start to make these videos a little bit more fun. Because when I look at Shelly’s videos, Shelly looks fun and lively, but somehow when I start to answer your questions, I feel like in writing I can be totally myself, and in person, I can be totally myself, and then I start to record myself and I feel crazy. And I wonder if I look pretty enough, and then I feel frustrated, because I don’t want to have to look pretty to make a video for you guys, and my eyebrow is half-white, for some reason, when I was seventeen, my eyebrow turned half-white. And when I’m in person with people, it’s interesting, and a fun conversation piece, but on camera, it looks really weird, and it starts to make my face look unnatural. And you know, it’s just been one of those days, where I woke up feeling pretty shitty and down today, so to be on camera is just not natural, so this is a little bit of like, ‘what is it like to be a woman someday?’ And somedays it just sucks! Somedays my emotions are all over the place, and one moment I’m sad, and the next moment I’m down, and my heart aches and I don’t even know why, and I’m obsessing about death lately, and feeling panicky about like, ‘what happens if all of a sudden I just die?’ and you know, I’m flying on an airplane tonight, and what if the airplane crashes and I die? And it’s just like, everything is all over the place! And sometimes I just want someone to hold me and tell me that it’s all gonna be okay. And then at some moments, I know that that won’t even matter, it won’t even make a difference, it’s all gonna feel like this anyway! So I’m gonna do some responses to your questions, but I just felt like I needed to get this out first. So I hope you enjoy the responses. Thanks.

Younger Women

June 15th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

In this clip, Shana responds to an AMP Inner Circle member’s question regarding the demeanor of younger women.

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Hi! It’s Shana, and I’m responding to a question that was about younger women, and why younger women tend to be a little more shy, or a little more reserved, and the guy who wrote the post was saying something about, ‘I like older women, who are in their 30s, they’re more relaxed,’ and that younger women tend to avoid him. And, what I can say is I remember being a younger woman, and I remember how much more self-conscious I was, and how awkward I was, and how actually really angry with men, when I was younger, there was a lot of frustration and a lot of resentment from the things I think happened when I was younger, a lot of it the sexual things that I’d done in high school that I wasn’t really happy about that now I’ve done some healing and some work around. I was still carrying those around, and I was frustrated and often kind of sad and felt unseen, and so that’s my understand is that when we’re younger, as women and as women, or as young women and young men, well there’s a lot going on and there’s pretty much no support for everything that’s happening in our hearts, and all those confusing questions and really know what to ask. And so it’s great that you’re noticing that, and I think, in one sense, that can make you have some really great conversations, and see young women in a way that they don’t often get seen. And a question for you would be, ‘are you taking it personally?’ or making it mean something about you, or can you just let it be that it’s about the woman, and not necessarily about you. So I hope that you go out and have some amazing conversations with younger women and start to get their world, and ask them what’s going on and get curious and learn a little bit and learn a little bit and have them feel seen and understood, and hopefully you’ll get to have some of that connection that you’re wanting. Thank you.

Do I have enough experience in bed?

June 15th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shana answers a question from an AMP Inner Circle member asking about his level of sexual experience.

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Hey guys, it’s Shana- I am responding to a post, there’s a lot in this post actually, but the theme or the first question was about being a “1-minute man,” and whether women assume that if a man can’t stay present or hold connection in a conversation, that we’ll assume that he’ll be that way in the bedroom. And actually, Pria had a great response to that. The next question that came up was about eagerness or willingness, and someone else responded and said, ‘well, what about those of us who don’t really have as much experience, and we are kind of eager and really willing?” And I’ve said this for a really long time, but for me- well, first of all, there’s a difference between eagerness and willingness, and a kind of ‘blowing out’ like, I know that we as women have a lot of energy, and it’s not always easy to be around. Whether you can hold that energy is different than whether you’re excited and eager and willing. So there’s a distinction there that’s maybe a little bit hard to get on video. The other thing for me is that while I don’t really enjoy having sex that’s short all the time, again, like Pria said, it will happen, because we’re all human, I do prefer a man whose willing over a man who already knows what he’s doing.

Asking a Woman to Change

June 9th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Shelly answers the question from AMP Inner Circle member Simon asking whether or not it’s OK to ask a woman to make changes.

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Announcing…Authentic Sexual Power!

June 7th, 2009

Have you ever lost the woman you were in love with to your best friend?

I have…and it was because I was missing THIS Key Ingredient…

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Have you gotten LJBF’d (Let’s Just Be Friends) so often that you’d rather not even TRY meeting women than face the experience of being rejected…AGAIN?

Do you spend your nights alone at home watching porn because you’re feeling a craving for women that you just can’t seem to satisfy?

If so, it’s probably because you don’t have the ONE THING it takes to spark the kind of natural, undeniable physical passion in her…the kind that has her aching with desire for you.

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If you CRAVE to feel that spark back in your relationship that has you feeling excited and passionate, you’re not alone. Women experience this too, as do millions of men, and it’s not their fault.

Society has “tamed” the primal, carnal lust out of us.

We’ve disconnected…

We’ve been socialized, domesticated…TAMED.

Our connection, as men…to our MASCULINE SEXUAL DESIRE…to our PRIMAL, CARNAL NATURE…has been suppressed, crimped, shut down…

No more.

I’m finalizing a program that addresses this completely…

It’ll not only help you overcome the ways you may be SUBCONSCIOUSLY blocking her desire for you, but it’ll give you the tools that actually WORK to build and sustain incredible sexual attraction in her…each and every time.

I need your feedback on what to put into the program.

So click here for a “sneak preview”, and discover the 3 ways you’re literally killing your sexual power, and tell me what you’d like to see in the program:

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I can’t wait for you to try it and to hear from you about it.

On fire,

Bryan 


P.S. Watch your inbox in the middle of this week, you’re going to be getting lots of cool videos this week…this first one is about how to send electrifying, Heart- and Body-opening text messages…

The link again:

http://AuthenticSexualPower.com

Being IMPACTED…The “Lost Child” Story…

June 1st, 2009

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I was lucky to have my camcorder ready to record Guy (one of our AMP Facilitators and a mentor of mine) telling this short, animated, moving story…

The thing that really moved me was how IMPACTED Guy allowed HIMSELF to be.

So often, we as men are supposed to move through life stoically, not really affected by anything…

When I saw him share this, I was moved, not only by the story, but by how fully Guy allows himself to be IMPACTED by this experience he shares, in AWE of such a commonplace experience as a woman temporarily losing her child…

It had me look at my relationship to my OWN experiences in life. Would this have been just “some Mexican lady who lost her kid”?

Or would it have been an extraordinary, beautiful experience of the love between woman and child?

I constantly strive in my life to allow myself to be moved, impacted, penetrated by my life experiences…because my life feels RICHER, FULLER, and DEEPER as a result.

And, of course, my question to YOU:

How fully do YOU let YOURSELF be impacted by your experiences?

The answer to that question determines how RICH your life actually is, versus how DEAD you are…

BTW, if you’d like to learn more about Guy, check out these videos (and learn about his year-long AMP-style facilitator Training Program, the TCLT) — http://AuthenticManProgram.com/TCLT

Bryan

BTW, Something HUGE — that we’ve been working on for the last 6 months is coming at the end of this week…a NEW OFFERING from AMP – about accessing your Sexual Power. Watch your email…

Leave a Comment, and tell us: How fully do YOU allow YOURSELF to be impacted?

Feeling your heart

May 28th, 2009
Members of the AMP Inner Circle get their questions answered by our AMP Women on video. If you’d like a free trial to join the AMP Inner Circle and get YOUR questions answered, go to: The Authentic Man Program main page.

Today, Alissa answers a question from Sparky about men accessing their heart and displaying vulnerability and the impact it can have on a woman.

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